Yo! HH05 - good to see you.
I don't feel sorry for Faramir. He knew she had a crush on Aragorn (who wouldn't) but after she had proved to herself that she was strong (The WitchKing) and things weren't looking quite as bad as thay had she let go of that crush and found love with someone who was as noble as Aragorn. By that time she was no longer seeking escape from the cage that her life had become.
Even Aragorn recognised it for a crush, thankfully.
but in me she loves only a shadow and a thought: a hope of glory and great deeds. and lands far from the fields of Rohan
Faramir said to Eowyn
You desired to have the love of the Lord Aragorn. Because he was high and puissant, and you wished to have renown and glory and to be lifted far above the mean things that crawl on the earth. And as a great captain may to a young soldier he seemed to you admirable. For so he is, a lord among men, the greatest that now is. But when he gave you only understanding and pity, then you desired to have nothing, unless a brave death in battle.'