Thread: This is ONLY for girls!
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Hey everone! Who here loves somebody that they cant have? One here...Me!
But since this is the all-girls thread, I have a major complaint: why is it that full-figured girls cannot find decent clothing anymore?!?! I went on a full shopping spree only to find the spring styles all centered on the stick girls (which there is nothing wrong with those types of girls - my cousin is one so I have nothing against you) but there is nothing for me!!!!! Grrrr....I'm gonna become a designer.
u girls shud be comfortable wid your figures and stuff and dont fret around too much about them supermodels. coz most of them dont have enough brains to fill an eggcup!
Though i wud agree wid u aelric, big chests do look good on some people
(not really mad. its just frustrating) And i totally agree with u Nilgaerien!
Whenever I`m down the local shopping centre, you know the dummies they have in the windows, they always seem to be REALy thin, it looks sooooo unhealthy! I do know some thin people like that, but in my opinion it`s too thin, i`d rather have a bit of meat on my bones than nothing at all.
i`m not exactly happy with my body. The way i see mysef, the only good thing about my body is my stomache lol...tanned and completely flat.
I wonder why designers usually design their clothes for really thin girls/guys/supermodels/whatever...I mean, you have kids that are around my age, obsessed with losing weight and becoming anerexic, i don`t think seeing clothes like that help, even though i know most of it`s from seeing their pop idols e.t.c really thin.
I`m not sure if you know a shop called Morgan, but it`s a shop design for smaller sizes. I go there sometimes when i have the money, but when i look at the clothes, most of the sizes are REALLY small...sizes 6-10, stuff like that. Not everyone`s going to be that thin right?
(you`ll have to excuse me for not being totally on top of the subject, haven`t been in here for a LOOOOOONG time )
Women are instintively drawn to size and eye's to see who is a good hunter and protector. so ignore the fasion industry as it's just nonsense. you look at any animal in the wild the females are usually dowdy compared to the males, as it's the males who try to attract the females. Women are trying to reverse this in our society so how can any of you complain about your looks. You're now the Peacock, not the Peahen!
is it true men like the hips, bums n bigger boobs better than the supermodel type?
Hehehe Vee, men cant help but drool over women, small or big.
It's confusing when women insists that looks are not important, only personality, and then drools all over their keyboard when someone mention Legolamb.....
You are so right. I am a girl, but you know what? I reckon looks are not important (Unless they really ARE a troll), only personality, and I DON'T drool all over my keyboard when someone mentions Orlando Bloom. I had a really huge cat fight with a girl I call BLoom-girl. Need any details? I thought not. Not ALL of us are like that. Maybe Nil, but not me, and anywayl, she's more insane than me. I think Orlando Bloom is sort of good-looking, and so is LEonardo DiCaprio, but you know what? I don't have a teenage schoolgirl crush on them. I have never giggled when their names are mentioned. In fact, when Clare did, I mimicked puking behind her back. Tis true!
You better believe we fall all over ourselves for a nice-looking guy... Actually, there was this adorably cute guy in the library the other day and I just had to go and make a fool of myself...*sigh*
Nil, Nil, Nil, must you fall for every guy who looks good? I would never do that. But then again, I'm not as insane as you. I'm still insane, though!
Hehehe Vee, men cant help but drool over women, small or big.
It is such a blessed curse!
Hey, I live in the city that was polled to have the best-looking guys in the country!!! I can't help myself. And actually, I don't fall...I merely eye, then trip, making a fool of me, then I continue walking.
Really? I'm in the city that was polled to be the third most boring city in the country! But there are good-looking guys everywhere, Nil. Trip? That's the same as falling. You silly little girl. How could you?
And about this gu8y who you don't know whether he's a friend or not? How did you know exactly the same is happening to me? My best friend, he is. I don't know whether he's a friend or not, but I don't mind either way. He is so cool, but you know what/ THis jkust proves what I said earlier. He is not good-looking at all, but h'es cool because of his personality. So there!
I think you had just better feed the guy to Shagrat, that way we will know that your safe from him.
How do we know you are ready for dating? Do you have a special hat? (Good idea, btw) Also, me suspects, you don't want "guys", as in any guy, looking at you, but prince charming on or off a white horse. Most guys, with good reason, have very little self confidence on this matter, and usually do not approch a girl without some hint of mutual interest. (smile, body posture, etc.) To be turned down isn't fun you know, especially not if it involves hysterical laughing...
But why should we come to you? Get up and show some initiative dammit! We shy guys are very much for female initiative.
Of course, when it do happen we get very suspicious and start looking around for a hidden camera!
On the personality thing. Pretending to buy that my question would then be: What personality traits are attractive? Girls always list up: sense of humour, kind, gentle, trustworthy, a real friend, emotional and caring. Then fall for the biggest dirtball around. All empiric experience shows: the bigger the sleazeball, the longer the line of girls drooling. While the guys that actually have some of those good caracteristics you listed are ignored.... Explain yourself, please!
(actually there is sound biological reasons for this, but I won't bore you with them)
Love? Lust? Nothing but hormones......
It all comes down to producing the next generation and passing on genes. Mother Nature has her priorities sorted.
However, the hormones are not the cause of attraction, they are the effect of it. But then in turn are the cause of the feelings that appear. What is driving the whole thing is the genes, with one purpose only: spreading and surviving. It is very important to notice that the genes do not guide us to what brings most happiness to us, but to what suits them. It is this that make girls fall for bad guys with personalities they really don't like. Egoistic, self sentered, leeching slimeballs are masters of survival.(think reality shows. Who wins? The useful? Helpful? Kind? Not at all! The lazy backstabbers) Therefore to have those genes in your kids is a good idea. But it won't make a happy marriage...
(grossly simplified version)
This might come as a shock to you, but girls has hormones too....
However, the hormones are not the cause of attraction, they are the effect of it. But then in turn are the cause of the feelings that appear.
Yep.... the chemical reactions in our brains..... then *kapppow!* hormones. From then on it is a roller coaster..... the hormones make you feel one thing..... your brain tells you to stop being stupid..... the hormones counter that with even stronger feelings........ just one tiny slip in control and ZAAAAAP!
I, personally, had a bad experience with one around Halloween, and have been avoiding them since, no matter how dashing.
*winks at CC*
Oh yeah, and I love the exampled stuff above, but that's not all I look for in a guy. Wanna hear what I really look for?? Too bad - not telling!!!
Isn't that the most considerate thing my girlfriends could do for me?