Thread: Sorry to Anyone who has seen T
I'm sorry ,
Nobody here hates you. You are welcome to stay a member of Planet-Tolkien. Please only use one user name here on PT and in the chatroom. It would have been better if you had contacted a Council Member or one of the channel operators and told them the problem you were having.
I will send this reply to your email address as well.
Vee - Council Member
I don't hate you, and nobody does. Actually I quite understand why you did it. Losing someone you love is always hard, and now it's extra difficult. I wish you all the best and strength in this time. I hope you'll continue to enjoy Planet-Tolkien, and I hope meeting you again in chat, or in the forums.
You are very welcome to stay with us. It took a lot of guts to tell us the truth and I am really glad you did. We are not mad at you. In fact I want to give you a big warm hug. Like Vee said, if you-know-who or anyone else is making you feel uncomfortable here or in chat, tell us right away. That goes for everybody who comes to this site or the chat. Let us know, we have the power to fix it.
See you around, ? *looks at Kyra with big big puppyeyes*
With regards to people harrassing you in the channel, again, you need to tell the ops, not suffer in silence. Until they are made aware that there is a problem, they don't know that there is a problem. In order to take action against anyone, someone needs to make a complaint directly to the ops, not to a friend who then makes the complaint on their behalf. There are reasons for this, mainly that they might need to ask you questions, or request logs.
If you would like, find me on the chatroom, and we can talk in private about what was going on. I'm not a CM, but I am a server administrator, if I judge there is grounds, I can remove people from the network, permanently, but in order to do so, I need to talk directly to the people affected first.
Ditto what everyone has said above. It seems to me as though you have gone through a great deal of pain and anguish recently. You are only young, and events such as you have described can cause a lot of confusion. Please, please do not leave Planet Tolkien because of what you have done. Under the circumstances it is totally understandable. I like to think the members of this site are all here for each other like one large extended family. It sounds to me as though you really need the support of this family right now. Please take the advice of those who have posted above and let us all be here for you.
I hope thing work out for you soon.
You may lean on us during your times of trouble; though, please don't give up the professional help you are receiving and please complete the course of your medication. That said, you may share your problems with us, which is usually better than bottling them up within yourself. Who knows, someone here may even have an answer for you in their commiseration.
Consider us your friends.
Well Other than that thank you all for posting and i hope to see you later