Not at all. I said "real" for a reason!
I'm making a distinction between three-dimensional, flesh-and-blood characters and the above-mere-mortals archetypes: Goldberry, Galadriel, and to some extent Arwen. It's not just they
are immortal, but they are superior beings in other ways too. L’thien is certainly that!
Perhaps I am drawing too strong a distinction, but just think about all the more down-to-earth characters like the Hobbits, Gamling, Bergil, Beregond, or even Denethor who's got a few eccentricities and mental powers but not (like Galadriel) totally beyond human experience. Think of Barliaman and Bill Ferney and Harry. Think of Hob and Nob. Think of old Maggot, or Freddy Bolger. Think of Erkenbrand, Grima, Forlong, Halbarad and ’omer. There are all types of believable male characters who do things and live their lives without defining themselves by women's roles.
The reverse is not true.
But I must concede I had forgotten somebody, so I take part of my post back.
There actually is one strong, independent female character in LOTR who looks after herself without paying much attention to men's roles or her attachment to a particular man: Lobelia Sackville-Baggins.
She is real. She happens to be a shrew in places, but by the end we see the ol' girl with a lick of courage to respect.
How could I forget Lobelia? I apologize.
Of course, holding up Lobelia "screen time" and impact on anything, and comparing her to Beregond or Faramir or even Barliaman, shows that her role is fairly limited too. And she's not always a very positive figure. But she is
a real person, not an ideal, semi-divine female nothing like anything we'd ever meet.
So we've got Lobelia. You've got Aragorn.
Valedhelgwath's right about Morwen, though. Her family doesn't do very well, but she weathers the storm as best she can.
But L’thien falls into that magical, mythical, goddess-like sphere that so many female elves do. There are ordinary male characters that we could imagine meeting and having a conversation with. There are also "beyond our comprehension" male characters like Elrond and to some extent the noble Faramir. But if you're a woman in this world, you almost have to be an Elf, and an exceptional Elf at that, to be worthy of mention, or to be able to achieve much of anything. If you're human on top of that, well: only ’owyn managed it, while suicidal and pining with unrequited love for Aragorn, hoping to win his regard.
But she’ problematic though she is’ is the exception that proves the rule: if you're female, you're almost certainly not going to get a mention in the Red Book, except as a hero's wife or mother or daughter. There's nothing wrong with any of those things, but men, on the other hand, are more commonly identified by their deeds and position than their relationship to the opposite gender.
I don't wish to belabor the point too much: this is one small aspect of a humongous edifice, a chip in the plaster. To me it's more like getting annoyed at Peter Jackson for making Frodo too passive. But I do see it as a flaw in Tolkien's writing.
[Edited on 4/21/03 by sepdet]