Thanks to all for the kind welcome, and Prog I promise that I won't be a stranger! I'm definitely trying to make my peace with the film, and the best thing that has come out of all of this, is that I have found PT (thanks for pissing me off PJ). I hope that I haven't come off as being closed minded, or not open to necessary changes that need to be made for the sake of making the movie, because I'm certainly not that way. It's just that I too trusted PJ, Fran, and Phillipa's intentions, and I also perceive them to be genuine in their passion for Tolkien's work, and based on what had been achieved with FOTR I had no reason to believe otherwise. I think the main reason I was so upset initially was because I trusted them, and what I saw the first time was just so unexpected. There are definite positives though, and that's what I'm really trying to focus on now.
Also, Ringfacwen I was really upset that we didn't get to see the things you mentioned as well (as stated in my first review of TT), but staying on the positive side, I'm fairly certain we will at least get to see that scene in ROTK. I can't see how PJ could not include that part. Personally, outside of the last 3 chapters of book 4, that is my favorite part of TTT. I've been reading a ton of reviews on the movie, as it has been helping my perspective, and making me feel better, and a lot of people have been saying that PJ said that TT would be the one film that would be the least like the book, and that ROTK would be more like FOTR in terms of staying closer to the true story, I just pray that this ends up being the case! BTW, GM I think you should go see the movie. The fact that you have heard so much about it will protect you, but you will be outraged with certain things (as you have long perceived), there's no way to sugar coat that.