rrPer, I'm so glad for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!rr ( )rr rr Ater, I have actually about 5 best friends, 4 of them are boys!!!! I've always been one of the boys!!!!!! I used to be on the football team! lol!!!! anyway, I do have a girl best friend, who's here crying cause i never mention her. Anyway, I don't get why a boyfriend should be jelous of me having my best friends coming over for the day and us havin fun, i mean..... you are a boy, tell me why would anyone be jelous!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so curious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You guys are soooo nice.... I wonder what the other girls think about you theory..... I know that jelousy eats you alive at times, but so many times you people make a national issue out of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 It's like so funny, anyway, I'm so glad for Per!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope you'll have a nice time together!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Do you people think girls get more or less jelous of boys?

You know what I find stupid and it really gets on my nerves,well I'm gonna tell you.
When you return from being out and someone says "oh its you" what of cousre its me who else would it be or "your back then" no I'm still out I'm just projecting my form throgh the Astral plane by the way how was you day.
Why do people have to state the obivious god it gets on my nerves.

Jeeee lets see



Well, I couldn't possible answer that, I’m the least jealous person on earth, once i went on a school business trip, and i knew my boyfriend had had a one night stand with my best friend and he knew i knew, and I didn't say anything, call me crazy, but I thought he was just hormone crazy, he said he couldn't love me cause i was not jealous. i guess that's the treatment t many of you guys get, go figure why people do it. I personally wouldn't want a boyfriend to be jealous, it gets annoying, that's why I am not.



First of all, I don't think anyone knows what they really want, and second of all, I think you should never look for the perfect person, the one you want, the one that fits perfectly. And i do not think you should try to change some thing, i believe in what i heard once form a very wise teacher of mine, which is now at war in Iraq (God bless him and save him, because I don't know what I would have done without him and I know that there are so many people out there that could use a friend like he was to me), anyway, Bobby, that's how he let me call him, told me once "Love isn't about kisses and physical pleasure, it is not about the looks. Love is not about finding the perfect match, but it is about learning to see a person perfectly." I took that statement as a way of living. Since i heard that, I was able to see the world from a different prospective, and I think that everyone should give it a try.



Dear Rhodry, yeah well, men do get that a lot, and you are right, it's never us, it's always you..... lol just kidding, actually I've gotten that once, I started laughing, and I told him "How stupid do you think I am?". You know, I've always thought that everyone around me was a lot better that I am, but then after that experience, I’ve learned that nobody is born any better or any worse than other, what matters, is how you choose to be. I know i would never say that to anyone, because I would be a liar, I always thought and I still believe that the truth is bad in short terms, but good in long term, because small pain is better than getting scared for a life time.



Yeah there are Aire, but what if sometimes you wish there weren't????? LOL! I think the world has too high levels of testosterone everywhere........ but it's probably just me........... go figure lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Dear Aster, i decided to quote you again, because this doesn't have anything to do with jealousy and break ups. This is a secret I will reveal about the world of women, so that you have a little bit more success in life!!!!!!!! i think that there is never anything wrong with any guy, what you people do not considerate is the power and intrigue of the WWWN. The WWWN also known as the World Wide Women Network, is known to be the fastest and most used form of communication by humans, particularly women. You see, men never remember that even if they share a little secret with their little buddies, there is a way that the WWWN comes to know about it and tell to the person who should have been told by one of you in the first place. It can be a problem, a comment or anything else, the point is, that is what ruins you people, keep you mouth shut, or if you have to say something, I strenuously suggest you tell it to your girl, cause when she gets to know about it using the WWWN, nothing will save you.

The whole point of this is:

BE TRUE, BE SINCERE, LOVE US AND WE'LL LOVE YOU BACK.

With love

Wise words Valedhelgwath and I mean that. Sitting reading through your post. I have to agree with you man.
Just thought I would say.

YOU DO NOT WANT ONE!!!!!! THEY ARE ONLY PAIN AND TEARS IN THE END!!!!

Here it is why, lets say you meet someone now, lets say that you guys fall in real love (lets use the word love very freely), lets get to the point where we say that you guys spend the rest of your lifes together, one of you will die first, there are 22% more possibilities that it'll be him = pain, tears and sadness, why go thought all that?

Cheers, d'you wanna buy any of 'em (skint again) sounds a good idea, good drummers are hard to come by.

Also, unless you are happy being single. you can NEVER be happy with somebody else. Trust me on this, just for once Val's got something right! *gobsmacked*

Learn to play it of course, you need to be varied, everyone does. It's more fun (btw, love those lyrics you keep putting in your journal). Though Drummer remember is a bit too much like Remember you're a Womble, which I'm gonna be humming all day now.

Wow Plastic!, But also well said! it's important to try new things....I love to. Right now my thing is giving lessosns, music lessons to kids. It is so much fun. I teach guitar, violin, piano and flute as instruments. I also teach history of music, reading and writing music and singing. It's the best thing ever!!!!!!! Everytime one of the klids finish a book (leverl) I take him/her to Kings Dominion park, and I take him/her on the roller coasters. Just to make it fun, sometuimes my friends and I take 6 or 7 kids with us. Once my best friend and I went with 2 kids (my best friend is a boy) and we heard please behinde us saying "My god how old was she when she had the babies? And look how good she looks! So young and fit" It was sooo funny! I teach kids from 3 to 6 years old, and I look like i'm about 18, even if I'm only 15, so you could think that I look younger than i am and I had kids... it's hilarious when you hear people saying taht stuff. Anyway! I think that now I'll try buggy jumping with Lovro (my best friend)

What do y'all think?

Heh, I'm jack of all trades master of none, you can hear the (slightly scary) results over on my website if you want to know more. Wish I could play horns and flutes and suchlike, but 14 years of chain smoking have left my lungs unable to cope with a wind instrument you can't suck.

And talent really is debatable you know, I'd hear what I do first...

Thoughs..... I'm mad at men.......
Men should not think nor talk, they shoudl just sit there and look pretty. If they cannot manage to look pretty, they should just go out and fix something. If they cannot fix anything, I suggest they take up suicide. lol, just kidding..........

I'm so sorry Kaimelar. I'm really glad you got away from that creap! People (if you can call them that) like that makes me so mad! I want to hit them so hard they come to their senses and see what they are doing to people, as it seemes mind games and violence is the only language they know!!! Unfortunatly I'm short, weak and barely able to kill a fly (I'm too nice) so I can't save the world after all..

I am my own person, nobody can control me. (At least i hope not). I'm short tempered and stubborn as H*ll, but I rarely stay angry for long (lemming is a good descrition). I have a nice boyfriend who loves me for who I am and who knows trying to change me or making me do something I don't want only results in me biting his head of. And I love him for who he is. And as long as he survives my tantrums, we'll be fine.

I'm lucky.

No dating...no dumping...but how will you find a husband/wife if you dont date?!

Brother I think having a family is the best thing in the whole world.To have someone with you can share with and with you can laugh with.To have someone by your side when you feel alone...
Of course there are those times with scandals and all but I think it's normal for a family to have fights.(I try as hard as I can but I still can't remember the last time my parents had a fight)
Imagine what it's like being a father(it means much to me)!!!
Now don't send me any nghtmares ok...I just gave my opinion on this (I don't smoke)

You just keep on living and find another relationship untill you have a perfect match(well nothing is perfect but you know what I mean).
I would just hate to miss my chance to relate with someone I really care about.To live this life on my own is something I am not capable of and I don't think anyone is.

That's right. You live life on attack, not defense. LIke in soccer, if you wanna score you play foward, not goal keeper. Nothing should be able to slow you down, no way. Yesterday is in the past, but tomorrow is coming fast. All you got is now, are you gonna spend it thinking if there is a perfect guy or chick for you out there? or are you gonna make the best of your life, and if a good chance comes along you get it?



Death. When you sit down, and you think you don't anything for sure, and your life is closing up on you, think this, you know you WILL die. Build from there, are you going to die without trying? Or are you gonna have the best of the time you have? You don't know how much time is left till you run out. Just like me and my best friend, who's leaving, moving away, never coming back. Never give up, nothing can take you down, no way! Just look up, and think, "I wanna get there, to teh top". Now how do you you get there, is your choice.



You can't live your life thinking something new will come along, nor keeping searching for it always. What about your dreams? What about everything else you fought for before? Are you going to leave all that to look for a perfect match? And if you find it, and it askes you to give up on your dreams, are you going to? Not me. My dreams are all that's left. It's all that keeps me hanging on to reality. The promise that someday everything will be like I dream it everynight. I would never give all of that up for a guy. Never.



Anyone can do anything they want to do. Now you don't let anyone see you frown. YOu gotta turn it upside down! There is no point in crying and giving up, thinking that you only need another person with you to help get through it. It's all about you. Get ready and then you go. Once you do, there is no stop and no turnback. It's your life, are you goingt to waste it looking for someone? Nope. Never ever stop, try and try a lot. Till you get it right. Stand up and make some noise. Yell so that they hear your voice. When everyone says it's not possible. When everyone believes it is not possible. MAKE IT POSSIBLE. There is notghing you can't do. There is nothing better than your best. And if you believe you can do it, you will. Show them what you got, cause you got a lot!

That's how I see it.

One of those murderers is me! j/k! I hate to think I`m going to die, it`s really frightening...Just thinking that you`re going to die eventually makes me shiver. It sends a chill up my spine....

That`s very unusual, but I know what I`m doing when I`m older: forefilling my dreams!

Death doesn't bother me a bit, it never has. I am a Christian and I am secure in my faith.

So, what animals would they be? Sheep??

The talking animals thing is just something that tends to happen in my dreams, on one notable occassion it was a Walrus, sitting on a table in a classroom of my old school, very odd. I have odd dreams, that's all, and btw. In colour (which apparently means something).
Never sheep though, thankfully.

And nice motto Andrea, lucky for me not a lot of women stick to that!

As to the after-death thing, I don't know how far we can push it without getting too religious in the discussion, but I am happily unafraid of it for the exact opposite reason as Stony, heh.

I don't know Asteroth. Death is there. why is it so spooky for you people to talk about it! I just don't get it.

It wasn't me that said that. if there is one thing I don't knwo about is american taxes, why should i know about it?????????????????????????????????????????

Quite right Nell. Sorry Arwen_RingBearer, that is the second time I've got you mixed up in my head and why I usually copy the names. Of course I probably saw the "ring" and copied it without thinking. I was running on empty when I read this tavern last night (my time).

I'll go back and edit my post. Sorry. :elfembar:

See the problems taxes bring??